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" I remember counting the consecutive days in which I cried.  Tears came for forty days, and then they stopped, at least for a few days.  I marveled at the genius of the ancient Hebrews, who set aside forty days for mourning, as if forty days were enough.  I learned later how foolish I was.   It was only after those forty days that my mourning became too deep for tears.  So my tears turned to brine, to a bitter and burning sensation of loss that tears could no longer express.  In the months that followed I actually longed for the time when the sorrow had been fresh and tears came easily.  That emotional release would have lifted the burden, if only for a while...

It is not, therefore, the experience of loss that becomes the defining moment of our lives, for that is as inevitable as death, which is the last loss awaiting us all.  It is how we respond to loss that matters.  That response will largely determine the quality, the direction, and the impact of our lives." --A Grace Disguised:  How the Soul Grows through Loss by Jerry Sittser

From John 9
Jesus Heals a Man Born Blind
 1As he went along, he saw a man blind from birth. 2His disciples asked him, "Rabbi, who sinned, this man or his parents, that he was born blind?"  3"Neither this man nor his parents sinned," said Jesus, "but this happened so that the work of God might be displayed in his life.

Paraphrased..."As he went along, he saw a woman who lost her sister...a husband, his wife...a girl, her mom.  His disciples asked him, "Rabbi, who sinned, this woman...this man...this girl or their parents, that they had to lose their loved one?"  "Neither they nor their parents have sinned," said Jesus, "but this happened so that the work of God might be displayed in their lives."

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    This memorial website was created in the memory of our loved one, Roxanne Willnow who was born in Adrian, Michigan on March 04, 1971 and passed away unexpectedly on November 12, 2006 at the age of 35 of a cranial aneurysm.  Roxanne was most proud of her husband, Rob, and their beautiful daughter Jamie.  She was a 1989 graduate of Sand Creek High School.  On Sept. 24, 1994, she married Robert Willnow of Palmyra, MI.  And on March 5, 2001 she gave birth to her legacy, Jamie Ronee Willnow.  She was employed at Ogden Telephone Company.  Roxanne's contagious sense of humor livened every room and she used that sense of humor in her love of photography.  Roxanne and Rob's final act of selflessness, through the donation of her organs, has given as many as six people a second chance of life.  She will never be forgotten.  
Click here to see Roxanne Willnow's
Family Tree
Tributes and Condolences
Happy Birthday   / Ronda Winans (Sister)
Happy 40th Birthday Rox!  I know we planned to meet these ugly milestones together and with a sense of humor.  To hell with plans I guess.  Wow...40 years old.  I know I'm more weathered and worn than I thought I'd be.  And f...  Continue >>
Response to Wendy Bender Blog April 2007   / Ronda Winans (Sister)
Eight months have now passed since we lost her. And every day is still a struggle. Some days are easier than others. It takes so much energy to try to be "ok" with this. When I read this excerpt from a weblog on grieving...it we...  Continue >>
Wendy's April 1, 2007 Blog Post   / Wendy Bender (Friend)
Her Legacy On November 12 2006 I lost one of my best friends Roxanne to a cranial aneurysm. Roxanne left behind a husband Rob and her darling daughter Jamie. You know those of us left behind focus a lot on what we've lost... but we should be ...  Continue >>
Heroes  / Bill DeLong (Brother)
November is organ donor awareness month or as I see it “Honor a Hero Month.” You see on November 12 2006 my sister Roxanne was pronounced brain dead due to a brain aneurism. At the age of 35 she was married to her husband Rob and tog...  Continue >>
Dreams  / Renee Bangerter (sister)
Recently one of Roxanne's really good friends Carol Huff e-mailed me about a dream she had about Rox.  It was so good to have an opportunity to miss her with someone else.  I loved hearing about her and trying to make sense out of some...  Continue >>
At the Hands of Loss...you Learn.  / Ronda Winans (Sister)    Read >>
The Birthdays keep coming.  / Renee Bangerter (sister)    Read >>
It doesnt get any easier.  / Kendra Willnow (Niece)    Read >>
Life goes on but it still hurts  / Renee Bangerter     Read >>
Whispers from heaven...  / Ronda Winans (Sister)    Read >>
We Keep Telling the Story...  / Ronda Winans (Sister)    Read >>
Never the same.  / Renee Bangerter (sister)    Read >>
Thank you Rox!  / Jami Meller (friend)    Read >>
Hey Rox  / Tonya Pontious (friend)    Read >>
Sweet Dreams  / Chad Rodgers (Cousin)    Read >>
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Her legacy
New Blood Drive Banner (2010)  
2010 Memorial Blood Drive T-Shirt  
Daddy Daughter Dance 2010  


           Her Mommy was clearly beaming....
Jamie's Personal Invitation to the Blood Drive  
Ohio Donor Quilt Square  
Read more...
 
Roxanne's Photo Album
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